This book tells Sarah’s life as lived in the shadow of
mental illness and the light of faith. Sarah’s father suffered from undiagnosed
bipolar disorder and was abusive of his family, especially his son Scott, who
grew up to suffer from debilitating mental illness himself. And, on her father's
side of the family, Sarah’s cousin Paul killed a woman during a psychotic
episode. She witnessed his execution for the crime.
Sarah’s experiences as a family member and an ordained
minister speak to how difficult it is to love someone suffering from mental
illness. Some pieces I want to remember from this: Sarah talks about the idea
of “bearing your cross,” and how that sometimes comes across as just putting up
with the suffering that God gives us. But for Sarah, bearing your cross has
come to mean carrying the things that just happen in life – like mental illness
– and carrying them in God’s presence so that they might be transformed, the
way Jesus’ cross was transformed from instrument of torture and death into
saving source of life.
Second, one of the hardest things about mental illness is
not necessarily the experience of the disease itself, but the shame and secrecy
that go with it. Sarah tells her whole story, gives her witness and speaks her
truth as an example of the way that telling the truth can set us free. Bringing
mental illness out of the shadows and finding ways to let go of stigma are ways
that people and churches can help the healing and health of people suffering
from mental illness and their families. Jesus did this kind of thing all the time - bringing people back into community with his healing touch. We can let go of our stigma
around mental illness, too, and learn to walk together in the light.
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